Narrow Feet - WHERE DO I FIND SHOES????

No matter how wide my butt has been, through three pregnancies or just plain old middle age spread, my feet have remained at AAA width...GO FIGURE!

So the other day I was out shoe shopping - not for a special occasion, just for everyday shoes.  I showed up at the shoe store with my little arch-support orthotics that don't take up much room in the shoes.  All I want are some casual shoes, like flats, and a pair of shoes that I would call 'sneakers', tennis shoes or running shoes

Most of the shoes these day do NOT come in widths, so right away I am limited.  Add to that the fact that my feet are big, so the bigger the shoes, the wider they are. The styles of many of the casual flats these days have HUGE, round toe boxes - I could fit my hands in there with my feet! The shoes that DO come in narrow widths are sometimes clunky and ugly and heavy.  WHAT'S A GIRL TO DO?  Someone, anyone, write to me and let's invest in a store called Skinny Feet!! Slim Chance?  Skinny Soles???